Abuse attachments

When we are abused, there is a transfer of energy between our abuser and ourselves. If the abuser is afflicted by many attachments, which they typically are, those attachments can transfer along with the energy exchange.

These attachments crawl into the vulnerable places and make a home. They shroud themselves in the storm of emotions that accompanies a violation. This storm of pain, anger, finger pointing, fear- all keeps the attachment hidden from sight.

Abuse attachments block pleasure centers, root and sacral chakras, and sometimes work through the chakra system eventually covering the entire network in this darkness and emotional storm.

Removing hidden attachments means simply allowing yourself to acknowledge they are there. If you were abused, you most likely have had to deal with these at some point. This dark energy transfer needs to be cut from the energy centers and surrounding life force field.

Once there is an acknowledgment that there was an energy transfer to you from your abuser, call on ArchAngel Michael, and the 5th dimensional tube of light. Ask that this energy be removed and sent to the light- or somewhere where it can do no harm.

Following release, the emotional storm that kept the attachment hidden with rage and then lose strength. Feel through the emotions with a grateful heart and let them go as well. Depending on the strength and size of the emotional storm, it may take some time to dissipate- meditation, salt baths, nature, creative expression, reiki can all help in this healing process.

Abuse survivors and the need to control

Many common themes run through the lives of those who have suffered trauma in early childhood. Feelings of being out of control- issues in fact with control itself, are very common. Many survivors “pretend” they are stronger, more assertive and more in control than they actually feel… this mask gives a false sense of safety and security. Because it’s a facade, the pain of what happened is exacerbated by the mask that needs to be worn all the time. It’s an exhausting circle of hide and seek with the self and others.

Some people decide to grasp control through extensive discipline and reproach. Limiting of nutrients and sustenance through diet and exercise is a common way that unresolved issues with control manifest. ….Anorexia, bulimia, cutting, bruising…. all coping mechanisms meant to give this false sense of safety.

While the root of the issue with control is the silence that abuse engenders; the very idea of “speaking up” is difficult for some; especially if this method was tried before but the message fell on deaf ears.

Parents and loved ones don’t always deny an abuse story because they don’t believe it- the denial comes from their own sense of guilt and shame from being the person who “allowed it to happen”.

Denial and/or the lack of support-full understanding from those close create the feeling of a deficit within the abused person which leads to the desire to “replicate and change” the outcome of the abuse and subsequent reactions to the abuse by replaying it in present day situations with the hope that they are finally “good enough” to attain a different result. This is a self defeating exercise.

Trying to change a toxic situation into a positive one only fuels and triggers the toxicity already present. To change the situation, one must move from it.

Healing from trauma is a process that is constantly spiraling back to itself. We reach new levels of understanding as we revisit the pain to gain the extra wisdom hidden within.

We can only reach others as deeply as we reach ourselves. Survivors are the deepest healers because they have had to reach deep within themselves, to the darkest spots; soothing them with loving kindness, compassion, joy and freedom (the four elements of love).

~acknowledge, accept, release, repeat~

If you are a survivor looking for more, looking for a place of safety within yourself, looking for a divine purpose…. find your breathe… silence your mind… and allow the universe to reside inside.

With love
Erin

Your inner healer 🌱

My mission is to help ease suffering from long standing secrets, traumas and pain.

Healing begins from within. We all need to find the space to release childhood traumas, inaccurate thought tracks and dis-ease

The Intuitive Healing session (which includes reiki and intuitive card reading) can help you find clarity; as the universe shows you what you need to see to embrace your divine grace and peace.

These healing sessions combined with meditation and ritual can help you maintain your connection to your divine higher self. Maintaining the space that allows for clarity is key to unlocking your inner healer and reaching deeper into self love.

It’s time to let go of suffering, unload your burdens so you can embrace the peace, stability, joy and love you deserve. You have within you the keys to unlock the hidden places within you now.

You are not alone.